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This is where I share weekly tools and strategies to help support you both as a parent, and in living your best life — so you can be an example of what's possible for your kids.

Feel free to browse or find what you need in the categories in the right-hand column.  I hope this inspires you, and by all means: COMMENT. I'm always open to feedback.

How to deal with homework battles & struggles Sep 23, 2024

Do you find yourself dealing with homework battles or struggles with your child? You're not alone. Many parents face the same struggles when their child avoids or fights homework. It's a common issue that can cause both frustration and concern.

You may be frustrated, thinking that your child is not motivated, disciplined, or downright defiant…  or you may find yourself nervous and concerned, trying to convince them that ...

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Getting your child to talk to you about their day Sep 15, 2024

Do you struggle to get your child to tell you about how their day went and what happened at school?  First, please know that you’re not alone!  This is an issue for many parents as many kids aren’t talkers.  Some kids are, and they tell you everything, including things you would rather not know.  These parents often wish they could get their kids to stop talking so the grass is not always greener on the other side!

For p...

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Using Books To Help Kids Through Challenges Sep 09, 2024

As parents, we all know that reading to our children is important, but did you know that you can help your child learn other lessons and helpful skills through reading?  Studies have been done with children as young as 18-24 months, finding that parents were able to help teach their children to help and share through reading.  When using books to help your child learn lessons and skills, the key is how you read to them.

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Help Set Your Child Up For A Successful School Year Sep 03, 2024

For most kids, each new school year means getting to know a new teacher and getting used to different social dynamics within the classroom. This may not cause issues for outgoing and flexible kids, but it can make for a difficult start to the new school year for children who struggle developmentally, socially, and academically.

One way to help your kids have a successful start to the year is to prepare a quick and helpfu...

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Is your child anxious about school? Aug 25, 2024

Is your child anxious about school or starting a new activity?  Each new school year means new teachers, different social dynamics, and new things to learn. With so many things being new and unknown, it’s normal for a child to be anxious. As parents, how we handle our child’s anxiety can have a significant impact, so I coach and teach around it often this time of year.

I invite you to pause and think about your typical r...

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How to help kids have a good first day of school Aug 18, 2024

Is your child starting school soon?  Kids can experience a wide range of feelings, from anxiety to excitement over the first day of school.  Heightened emotions in any direction will affect your child’s ability to control their impulses and their behavior, but there are things that you can do to help calm their nervous system and prepare them for a good first day of school.

What to do the night before:

Work on having a ...

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What to do 2 weeks before school starts Aug 15, 2024

Are you looking forward to your kids returning to school? It’s that time of year when we all start thinking about kids going back to school, and I do a lot of coaching on how to help kids prepare for the transition.

Here are a couple of things I recommend you do in the two weeks leading up to the first day of school:

Start using your child’s school bed and wake-up times. 
Children often go to bed and get up later in the...

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Preparing kids for preschool and kindergarten - what to do ahead of time Aug 06, 2024

Do you have a little one starting preschool or kindergarten?  Little ones starting school for the first time can experience a whole host of different feelings ranging from pride at being a “big kid” that goes to school to anxiety about being separated from you and not knowing what to expect.

This time of year I do a great deal of coaching on how to prepare kids for school.  Knowing that transitions and new situations can...

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Three tips for kids who have a hard time falling asleep Jul 23, 2024

Do you have a child that has a hard time falling asleep at night?  This is quite common, and I’m working with several clients right now who are struggling to get their young children to settle down at a decent hour.  I have one Mom of a 4-year-old who really pushes the limits and battles both going to bed as well as waking up super early.

Typically when parents tell me their kids have a hard time falling asleep at night,...

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Screen Battles - Why Kids Love Devices Jul 11, 2024

Do you battle with your kids over screen time?  Do you have a child that begs for screen time, and then has a meltdown whenever they’re asked to shut off the device?  If so, know that you’re not alone.

I work with many parents who have these battles, and it’s one that I had myself for many years.

I have a child who loved technology and video games from a very early age.  As a result, we had many battles about screen tim...

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Parenting Lessons From Dad Jun 16, 2024

What did you learn about being a parent from your Dad?  As another Father’s Day is upon us, I took time to think about my relationship with my own Dad, what I learned from him, and what parenting qualities I appreciated and wanted to carry on for my own children.  

Let me start with a little background…  My Dad came from a large family of 14, with 9 brothers and 4 sisters.  He always wanted to have sons, but ended up wit...

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Set Kids Up For A Successful Summer Jun 09, 2024

As we get closer to the end of the school year and the start of summer — with extra activities and schedule changes — are you experiencing more behavior issues with your child?  

This is an issue that I often see come up this time of year.  Parents are showing up for coaching meetings in a bit of a panic because the outbursts are unpredictable and seem to be ramping up.  I had one mom reach out with a ‘911’ call because ...

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