As parents, we all want to raise our kids to be kind, but what does that really mean, and how do we do that in a divided world? I’m bringing this up and hoping to raise awareness around this issue because I’m seeing parents posting about other kids being unkind and downright mean. They’re not alone; my own child has experienced this recently, too.  

The most recent post I saw was from a mom...

Does your child have anger issues?  I recently had a couple of parents reach out because their children were having anger issues at home and school.  The children were hitting and biting other kids, teachers, and parents, and they were saying really mean and hurtful things. The parents were at a loss and didn’t know what to do.

As a parent, it can be both scary and embarrassing when your young child...

Does your child have anger issues?  I recently had a couple of parents reach out because their children were having anger issues at home and school.  The children were hitting and biting other kids, teachers, and parents, and they were saying really mean and hurtful things. The parents were at a loss and didn’t know what to do.

As a parent, it can be both scary and embarrassing when your young child...

Does the thought of holding a boundary make you feel mean or insensitive?  Do you find yourself holding boundaries from a place of anger or punishment?  If either is true for you, you’re likely not using boundaries effectively and not getting the results you want with your kids.

In a recent article, I explained why kids need boundaries: They help them feel safe and secure and help them develop...

Does the thought of holding a boundary make you feel mean or insensitive?  Do you find yourself holding boundaries from a place of anger or punishment?  If either is true for you, you’re likely not using boundaries effectively and not getting the results you want with your kids.

In a recent article, I explained why kids need boundaries: They help them feel safe and secure and help them develop...

When your child isn’t doing what you want, how often do you resort to negotiating, bribes, rewards, or even threats to get them to cooperate?  As parents, we don’t want to think that we threaten or bribe our kids—but pretty much every parent has been there.  

You have somewhere you’re supposed to be, and your child isn’t cooperating. So you threaten that you won’t go...

Does your child struggle with BIG feelings, and are their emotions all-consuming?   Are your child's emotions unpredictable — keeping you on edge because you're unsure how to parent through it or what to do? You are not alone.  Parenting kids through big feelings can be hard and scary.  Many parents find it either maddening or anxiety-provoking — and some parents find it a mixture of both and...

How do you typically respond when your child is dysregulated, melting down, and out of control?  This is a challenge for many parents I coach, and I find that parents typically respond in one of two ways.  Some parents get frustrated themselves and respond with threats or by yelling.  Other parents respond by trying to negotiate, bribe, or convince their child to calm down.  I find that very few...

What would you tell me if I asked you how good you are at implementing and maintaining boundaries?  Most parents I work with know that boundaries are important, but they struggle to establish them and then consistently and effectively maintain them.  I help them understand why kids need boundaries and how they are essential to your parenting toolbox to help equip your child for successfully navigating through...

Do you have a child who avoids homework or has difficulty getting started?   Getting kids to do homework can cause headaches and battles for many parents, and many parents can think that their kids aren’t motivated, aren’t behaving, or are being downright defiant.

However, some kids' brains are wired differently, and they don’t get enough dopamine or blood flow, so their brains are...

Do you have a child who avoids homework or has difficulty getting started?   Getting kids to do homework can cause headaches and battles for many parents, and many parents can think that their kids aren’t motivated, aren’t behaving, or are being downright defiant.

However, some kids' brains are wired differently, and they don’t get enough dopamine or blood flow, so their brains are...

Do you find yourself dealing with homework battles or struggles with your child? You're not alone. Many parents face the same struggles when their child avoids or fights homework. It's a common issue that can cause both frustration and concern.

You may be frustrated, thinking that your child is not motivated, disciplined, or downright defiant…  or you may find yourself nervous and concerned, trying to...